A Message from Toni Weschler
Welcome to TCOYF.com, the official companion site of my book, Taking Charge of Your Fertility. Here you’ll have access to a full-featured charting app, our vibrant TTC community, informative articles, and helpful tips and interesting tangents like the one below from yours truly!

Toni's Tips and Tangents
The Elephant in the Bedroom (Revisited)
It probably comes as no surprise that many couples are sexually incompatible, but often, the reason could be so easily remedied if people just understood basic physiology. If you were a fly on the wall in bedrooms throughout the world, you’d be stunned to see how many women fake orgasms, even with men who they’ve been married to for decades. Are women really that devious? Actually, the answer virtually always comes down to female anatomy, and how we were designed. In a word, the most sensitive part of the man’s body is the underside of the shaft, near the tip of his penis. For the woman, on the other hand, it’s the clitoris. But because the clitoris is located outside [...]
The Ideal Time to Try to Conceive Each Cycle
Remember the days when you’d meet a stranger at a social event and one of the first questions you’d usually ask each other is along the lines of “And what do you do?” Who am I kidding? I don’t either. The pandemic has ended any semblance of normalcy for all of us. But stay with me for a second. Try to imagine back to when no one wore masks and we actually enjoyed socializing. When I would respond that I was a women’s health educator specializing in fertility, invariably I’d get any number of questions along the lines of the following two: Is it true that women are most fertile on Day 14? When is a woman most fertile in [...]
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